10 Negative Lifestyle To Avoid In Order To Be Happy

10 Negative Lifestyle To Avoid In Order To Be Happy 

1.Fear

To me I have termed fear and I have defined it like this, ' 

F=false

E=evidence

A=appear

R=real

The above definition is what I called fear, I don't know what you call it in your own mind. Fear is a negative lifestyle that worsten every situation in the  life of his victim.When fear caught up with a man,it weakens the will power of the man. Fear is too dangerous that it can make one to loose his / her self confidence in a minute. Fear can sabotage one's self esteem and makes his victim to loose his / her worth. Fear is negative mind set that every individual or person need to  overcome. I think the only antidote to fear is to keep repeating the same activity or the event that one is afraid of until it dies off. 

2.Gossip

Gossipp is one of the negative lifestyle that tarnishes the image of a person. A gossiper don't always achieve much in life because him/her don't always have time to think about his or her life. Small mind discuss about people, average mind discuss events while great mind discuss ideas.One of the disadvantage of gossip is that people will  not associate  or transact business with you .

3.Anger

Anger is a lifestyle or a habit that can cause a life time regret in a second. Hot temper is a state of mind that is too bad. I have witnessed a situation whereby a man and his wife were having a little misunderstanding,so in the  process of auguing with his wife, he went straight to the television stand and hit it on the floor. The following minute his friend ask what the problem is, the response was "it was the devil ''.The remedy or the solution to anger is to learn to stay quiet or avoid the incident that will lead to augment. 

4.Hatred

Hatred is a state of mind that when Occupied the mind, it causes alot Of havoc or damage to it victim. Any mind that is occupied with hatred will never see or accept the good things in the life of his fellow. A heart or mind that is filled with hatred will never see or agree with the positive side of his friend. Any individual that is polluted with a negative mind set will never know peace because all his belief and expectations is always to see the worst out of every situation. 

5.Malice

Keeping malice or have evil thoughts for people is the worst thing that you can ever do to your self. Keeping grudge will not do you any good, it can either make you to be dieing silent. The best remedy is this, forgive people that offend you not that they deserve it but because you deserve peace of mind. I think let it go is the best answer. 

6.Faultfinding

I call this one the game of blame. We are living in a generation where people are looking for who to blame about their misfortune. People are good at finding excuses or negative fault about what occurs in their lives that they don't like instead of looking for the solutions.Making excuses is easy but taking action is more harder. I think the best thing to do in this case is seeking for solutions and complying not complaining. 

7.Backbiting

It is the act or action of slandering a person without his/her knowledge. This act is very deadly. It can be very dangerous and at the same time poisonious. There is nothing more painful than see your friend sland you at your absent and smile with you at your presence. I think the best remedy is when someone offend you or do you wrong, feel free to approach the people than going about slandering and tarnishing the image of the person in his absence. 

8.Strife

This means violent, clash or disagreement between two people. This can also mean bitterness. Any person or individual that is filled with strife  will always cause conflict everywhere he goes. A bittered or Strife Person will never be at peace with people around him,check out the life of such individual,he don't normally be happy. A bittered person will always look for a way of expressing his feelings either by fighting or quallering. 

9.Quellering

It is a lifestyle that tarnshes the image of his victim. If you are the type that always quelle and fight always, people will find it difficult to come close to you or to have any thing to do with you. If you are the type of person that always make trouble with people with a little augment, it will actually make you to loose alot of opportunities.

10.Lies

Lie telling is a lifestyle or habit that can cause one to loose his integrity. Belief me, when people find it difficult to trust you, it will be hard for them to  trust you with  opportunity. If you are the type that say A and do B, it will drive people away from you. There is nothing like being a man or a woman of integrity,it paves way for the person. It pays to be truthful, trustworthy.

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